The Language of Love: Deepen Your Relationship With Loving Communication
Daily Checklist

Trust
✓ Tell the whole truth.
✓ Follow through and do what you say you’ll do.

Effective Listening
✓ Give your partner your full attention.
✓ Use appropriate body language.
✓ Let your spouse finish.
✓ Repeat what they said in your own words.
✓ Ask questions.

Share Your Hopes and Dreams
✓ Discuss a goal you’d like to achieve in the future.
✓ Talk about ways you can accomplish it together.

When You Disagree
✓ Remind yourself of your love for each other.
✓ Refrain from name-calling.
✓ Focus on the current issue.

✓ Use effective listening skills.
✓ Share your feelings.
✓ Apologize when necessary.
✓ Find a win-win solution.

Show Your Love
✓ Show gratitude.
✓ Do something nice for your partner.
✓ Turn a mundane task into something fun.
✓ Surprise them.
✓ Look your best; feel your best.
✓ Take time for yourself, too.
✓ Pray together.

Laugh Together
✓ Share a laugh.
✓ Talk about something funny.
✓ Do something fun and outrageous together.

Make Time for Each Other
✓ Make it a point to spend quality time together.
✓ Try new activities.
✓ Plan a fantastic vacation together.
✓ Add to your special trip fund, even if it’s only a small amount.